Memory and connection in maternal grief: Harriet Beecher Stowe, Emily Dickinson, and the bereaved mother

• Main Author: Provenzano, Retawnya M.
• Other Authors: Schultz, Jane
• Language: en_US
• Published: 2018
• Subjects: maternal grief; infant death; child death; child loss; mother’s grief; parental grief; mourning; complicated grief; bereavement disorder; Harriet Beecher Stowe; Emily Dickinson; Susan Gilbert Dickinson; Thomas Gilbert Dickinson
• Online Access: http://hdl.handle.net/1805/15863; https://doi.org/10.7912/C2T667

Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis (IUPUI) === This essay explores a broad range of literary works that treat long-term grief as a natural response to the death of a child. Literary examples show gaps in the medical and social sciences’ considerations of grief, since these disciplines judge bereaved mothers’ grief as excessive or label it bereavement disorder. By contrast, authors who employ the ancient storyline of child death illuminate maternal grieving practices, which are commonly marked with a vigilance that expresses itself in wildness. Many of these authors treat grief as a forced pilgrimage, but question the possibility of returning to a previous state of psychological balance. Instead, the mothers in their stories and poems resist external pressure for closure and silence and favor lasting memory. Harriet Beecher Stowe, in Uncle Tom’s Cabin, and Emily Dickinson, in letters to bereaved mother Susan Gilbert Dickinson and in the poetry included in these letters, represent maternal child loss as compelling a movement into a new state and emphasize the lasting pain and disruption of this loss.