| Summary: | 碩士 === 國立中正大學 === 犯罪防治研究所 === 100 === According to Ministry of the Interior Statistics, Marital violence is the most type among domestic violence. That means marital problem is a social problem that much-needed attention. The purpose of this study is to explore communication experience with their partner among male abuser of marital violence. This study adopted qualitative interviews method to collect data. Five marital violence offenders individual in-depth interviewing, per interviewee interviews about two to three times. This study use thematic analysis to analysis verbatim text and extract the main propositions. The findings are as follows:
Only one interviewee have long romantic relationship with partner before get married, the rest rush determine their marriage. The reasons are follows: " Have a son to carry on the family name, cross-national marriages" , " Nubile", that he think it’s time to get married, or " Just want to find a partner "to accompany .The foundation of their emotional connection are weak. About marital conflict communication factors and issues, The findings are " Husband and wife have different opinion", "The economy and money problem", "The expectations gap", " Partner violence we-ness", and "Affair" issue.
The majority of interviewee have good communication and interaction with their partner before marital violence happened, they seldom argue, until the conflict issue emerge. The poor communication mode was accumulate gradually. This study found poor communication include "Demand-Withdraw" communication, " Spouse one-way communication", "Husband repress anger and yield", "Both evade communicate", "Spouse Verbal Abuse", " Spouse hide and vague communicate", and other negative communication patterns. Which the spouse regardless of her husband face and dignity in the communication process. That cause their dissatisfaction to their spouse.
In the marital violence occurred moment, the same poor communication mode are reappear, the main mode is "Demand-Withdraw" communication. Other poor communication include: the spouse does not respond, the spouse uncomfortable respond, or refuse to listen advice. Some interviewee choose give up communicate with their spouse. When the emotion accumulate, they can’t control themself and use violence eventually. After the marital violence incident, both side unwilling to contact and communication, and refused to repair their relationship. Only one interviewee still live with his spouse, the possible reason is out of gratitude.
Based on the research findings, the researcher propose several recommendations for reference in practice : 1. Both husband and wife learn listening and appropriate expression. 2. Consider both face when communicate. 3. Appropriate yield, not depress anger. 4. learn to respect each other when communicate. 5. Face the problem, do not retreat. For the future research: 1. Increase the victim's communication data. 2. Increase the female interview date.
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