| Summary: | 碩士 === 國立彰化師範大學 === 輔導與諮商學系所 === 103 === In this research, 3 parentified children who gained the parenting experience in the childhood and underwent the bereavement after they have grown up, were deeply interviewed through the annotation of phenomenological methodology. The research aims at discussing deeply the transformation of their role and position in the family before and after they underwent the bereavement, how they presented their own appearances and the process of self-transformation.
The results of this study found the following:
1.The experience before and after bereavement connotation:
(1) Parenting of the child bereavement grief reaction and adaptation strategies:
a. Grief reaction with dependency, emotional level links and cultural factors are different.
b. Adjustment of sadness from mental, spiritual, cognitive, behavioral and policy planning in the future.
(2) The role and status of the family were significantly:
a. The parent-child role reversal in parents' role was significant.
b. He lost alreadyin care was significantly vague family status.
(3) I his relationship of changes:
a. The process of parenting me: to family needs as the first "self-nothingness" and forced to fill the seats "grow themselves."
b. Bereavement process I: unspeakable grief still take care of their families for the first "reluctantly self" and re-adjust my relationship with him is "pull themselves.
c. The process of parenting me: the interests of the public and its own model of parenting qualities flip "beyond the self."
According to findings presented conclusions are as follows:
1. The needs of his family for the first "self-nothingness" and forced to fill the seats "grow self." Hovering between.
2. The unspeakable grief is still family-first "reluctantly self" and my relationship with him to re-draw the line of "pull themselves" between adjustments.
3. From the care of one another have lost a "depleted self." He turned to Gu Gu had a "pamper themselves."
4. Forced to stand in the "wronged themselves" instead pleasing experience "self-affirmation."
5. The join link "relational self" instead pulled boundaries' awareness of self. "
6. The small pay my "self-limitation" in favor of big sacrifice my "go beyond the self."
Finally, comprehensive discussions should be conducted according to research results, andspecific suggestions should be provided to media and education workers, coaching and counseling workers, as well as the future research direction.
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